Opinion? Richard La Dieu Rich LaDieu firstname.lastname@example.org
i am a bit late with my answer, but neal had the best opinion to date. the others are also correct, leave it be. after you are settled a bit, invite the boy over for a short stay and see what pans out.
i know how you feel because i was in that type of situation once. all went well for the lad after he stayed with us here in maryland for two weeks. his father did change a bit, not a whole lot but enough for the boy to rethink about staying with us until he reached 18. today he lives in montreal, canada, is about 24 years old and doing well for himself and his wife.
keep the door open and a light burning for his visit.
cheers and good luck
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